We all have people we admire for obvious reasons although
the point of “obviousness” is not apparent to everyone. We admire those who save lives, those that
are successful in business, those who have a ton of children and never look
frazzled. We have heroes-we strive to be
like others yet try to find our own uniqueness within that similarity.
Mine did not come to me until later in life. When I was younger, I simply wanted to be a
kid-when I was a teenager I went to college, then I graduated and went on to a
career, got married and had a child.
These I believe are everyday events that happen in someone’s life and
because they are so overwhelming-we often lose sight of the real “me”.
I have always thought of myself as athletic-I ran in school
both track and cross country. I found a
love of strength training after college.
This carried me through my 20’s and 30’s. I feel a need as I start approaching 40, as I
believe so many of us do, to do something GREAT –a goal, an accomplishment-just
something.
"Breaking the Wall" at mile 20 where my dad jumped in |
It hit me one day-the hero, the person I admire, the one
thing I wish I could say I did was run a marathon-here I go back to my high
school days. This seems real to me
now-maybe because I am older and my determination is stronger. Maybe it is the mere fact of trying to find
the final piece of the puzzle to make it complete. Whatever, I found the strength and to me the
“obvious reason.”
What motivates us to run a marathon varies as much as those
who run them. But, for me thanks to my
Dad (my hero, the one I admire, the one who is obvious to me) I am about to
celebrate my first marathon.
The title is important you see-it reflects how much older my
Dad is and how many more miles he has run than me.
The odd thing is –he is this so far ahead of me but yet he has been
right by me the whole time.
My Dad, you see, has run for over 27 years and in those 27
years he has run over 30,000 miles-whew – most of us don’t even like to drive that far-Ha! This to me is amazing. The most amazing fact is that he has logged
every mile since he started running in 1980-this is a tradition that I have
continued since I began my quest-I find it self-rewarding to be able to look
back and see how I have progressed over the course of my training-he on the
other hand is much more humble than I am.
Turning the corner at mile 26 to finish the last .2 |
I decided to run the marathon in the city my Dad believes is
the greatest city in the world and where he now lives-Austin , Texas . I can truly
say this was a journey I had not anticipated. There were triumphs, mental breakdowns,
blisters, joy-filled times, friendships made, and there has been a bond between a daughter
and father that is irreplaceable.
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